Your post brings up another problem with blogging. Why do we feel the need to explain why we do or do not post? We aren’t paid. It’s a hobby. Sure folks probably worry because they feel that they know us. You know I finally gave up thinking what people thought long ago (well except for those I care about). Too much going on at home? Home comes first. Medical issues? Health comes first. Children? They come first.
You do what you need to do and blog when and if you feel like it. Oh, and you remember what I did to those who stole my bandwidth...heh heh.
We know you’re here. Just say hi when you are ready.
T. you are loved by so many of us, so don’t worry that you aren’t posting frequently. That’s why I have a feed reader...I can keep up with everyone that way. You take care of you, the family, and all those mundane events you have to go to now. Yeah, those can be a huge pain in the butt, that’s for sure!
Big hugs, and Happy Thanksgiving to, Kevin, the rugrats et al.
I have to say I agree with the status quo here. Your blog is for you dear, and if it ever becomes a time where it feels stressful or you feel that you have to explain yourself...know that we understand. I think most people that I blog with all have things that come up, but you sound that you have a lot to take care of. And, by all means, go take care of it sweetheart. We’ll probably still be here with open arms for a hug or a listening ear when you need it.
You didn’t owe us any explanation. Life has its ups and downs, busy times and not-so-busy times. If a hobby becomes less enjoyable, don’t force it. Sounds to me as if your priorities and viewpoints are exactly where they are suppose to be.
I’ll watch for you in my RSS feed, and hope you get back to regular postings soon - because that could signal some of the pressures of your real life have eased.
I agree with Chatty’s comment completely. I also want to ad in there that most all of us ‘old timers’ in the blog world have (or are now) experienced what you are regarding blogging and the whole public diary thing too. I love you girl, hang in there! And, don’t worry about what everbody else thinks. We purposely only display certain aspects of our lives in this medium and to those who are narrow minded enough to believe that is the entirety of our existances, they need to grow up. No body has the right to judge another for any reason. Period. I don’t get around to commenting much, even though I read, and I’ve quit explaining it to my readers too. I don’t comment because much of the time, I simply don’t have the time. Yet, I read through feedreaders and keep up on everything. You’re an amazing woman with an incredible load on your shoulders here lately. Of course you need to concentrate on your actual life! Blogging is simply a hobby on the side that you can drop and pick back up whenever your freetime allows you to. That is all it is.
Take care of you, lady! I miss you and love you tons and tons. you’re always in my prayers.
I can totally understand how you are feeling. And I hope this phase passes quickly and without more burden for you. It’s very true that people can’t and should not be judged by their blogs or attitudes. I like to throw my tantrums in my blog, just to get rid of them. And believe me, it works.
I sat and read though your post and acutally caught myself nodding my head after everything you were talking about *chuckle*
I feel the same way about my life/blog and lately it’s been wicked hard to just get up in the morning and deal with life much less try to be witty on the internet.
I hope that your life starts to balance out hun and best of luck with your holiday prep...we should get together one of these days for a post-holiday madness drink
Was this post inspired by my post this week? I hope you didnt take it personally- it truly wasn’t intentional- but then again I did email you about that. There is really no need to feel bad about life getting in the way. My beef isn’t with bloggers like that AT ALL. I just worry about bloggers who might have something bigger going on. I like it when bloggers care enough to blog, even if it’s just a sentence or two. Commenting is just a luxury that is sometimes easier said than done to do.
ha, well you have been missed, but i totally understand the whole blogger conflict. it’s called real life. though it is theraputic to put your thoughts out there, knowing you’ll be heard. don’t stop writing. your thoughts are helpful and reassuring.
I used to feel guilty too, but then I realized that life gets in the way! I hope you guys are doing well and don’t feel guilty about writing/visiting. We’re here when you need us!
Aww, it’s okay. I comment a lot less than I used to because I’m working now and stuff.....and I blog less too. I really miss it sometimes, but other times, I’m like “eh, I’ll get to it when I get to it.”
Don’t let it worry you...we’ll prolly still be here.
Unless you’re Stephen King or Danielle Steele no one can be writing dynamos daily. I have a myspace thing but only read adrianne curry’s blog on that one. Anyway...I dont; have time to comment or read as many as I like everyday..with a infant and all...but it’s nice yuou wrote a post!
Life doesn’t “get in the way.” It’s why we’re here! Do what you do, or feel like you need to do, and be done with it! If you want to share the details on your blog, then do so. If not, don’t.
But you will have to admit, this time of year there are SO many wonderful tales to tell and traditions worth sharing… how about it?
it’s interesting the opinions that people form because they assume that you’ve revealed everything there is to know on your blog, esp. when that person holds back. I completely understand why blogging isn’t a great of a priority for you, esp. with what you have going on. It’s slipping down my list each day, if anything b/c I’m tired of being at the computer all the time.
Anyway, I hope you continue to blog and come around, even if it’s once a month, for I enjoy reading your posts and comments.
Great big (((HUGS))) from me to you! I’ve been feeling a little down myself and I was thinking of stopping my blog. But I think I’m gonna hold on to it for a while and see what happens.
I’m going back to Hawaii some time next year to be with Kamalani, cause her Mom is being deployed to Iraq in July. But she has to leave to go to Georgia first. I’ll give you a call when it happens in case of a lay-over your way.
Just remember how much you mean to me. I am so fortunate to have you as a friend. And you are always in my thoughts and prayers. You, Jade and Ohgirl. Take care and bless you always. Love you lots!
Chatty is soooooooooooo right. Why do we feel we need to explain ourselves?? I go through the same things as you. I slack on commenting (Been at it since 7am this morning to post at least ONE comment on each blog on my blogroll) and I really suck at posting anything interesting lately. And I feel compelled to post about why I am not posting so much. Go figure.
THAT explains everything, 3T. I was worried I might have said something wrong at some point. You know I love you. Be well. I’ll check in here from time to time.
Oh my gosh, 3. It never ceases to amaze me how much we have in common. I am going through the same stuff right now in my home and also feel so guilty about not getting around to visiting other blogs or posting as much. It seems like we’re in the same boat, with the health problems, too (though I wouldn’t even beging to complain that my husband’s chronic pain issues compares to cancer!)
I had issues with breast tumors years ago. Had two surgeries to have them removed (I think I’ve told you this already, so forgive me if I’m repeating myself).
Anyway, if you want to talk about it ever, I’m always here for you!
Hi 3T,
Strolled in to say hi. This is such a gorgeous restful theme. I adore it. I have to run or I’d check and see if Rachel is still designing your blog? Please pass on WOW to her or whoever it is.
My style is to read several posts and then comment when a blog merits it, which yours always does. I dearly hope yours and Kevin’s medical challenges have a positive outcome.
As for the blogroll, I don’t care if I’m on a blogroll or not. It’s too stressful to try to keep up visiting everyone. I, too, used to do so religiously. I still visit much more often than I post, but both are sporadic.
The judgement from others(in real life) was one of the reasons I began blogging: as a “safe” outlet, bottling up the perceived negative parts of my life and only writing about “good things”; hence “Good Vibrations” besides the music theme.
Then I felt it was healthy to go ahead and release some feelings via my poetry. Some people always judge or give advice and I need to work harder on letting that go, even though I’m independent, I’m also sensitive.
Dang about them stealing your photos! That’s the reason I brand mine with copyright across it, ruining the image if someone tried to print it off or whatever. Some people have chastised me, but part of my art career is as a photographer, so anyone who wants an image knows how to obtain one.
Best wishes to you and yours this holiday season,
gel
Your post brings up another problem with blogging. Why do we feel the need to explain why we do or do not post? We aren’t paid. It’s a hobby. Sure folks probably worry because they feel that they know us. You know I finally gave up thinking what people thought long ago (well except for those I care about). Too much going on at home? Home comes first. Medical issues? Health comes first. Children? They come first.
You do what you need to do and blog when and if you feel like it. Oh, and you remember what I did to those who stole my bandwidth...heh heh.
We know you’re here. Just say hi when you are ready.
T. you are loved by so many of us, so don’t worry that you aren’t posting frequently. That’s why I have a feed reader...I can keep up with everyone that way. You take care of you, the family, and all those mundane events you have to go to now. Yeah, those can be a huge pain in the butt, that’s for sure!
Big hugs, and Happy Thanksgiving to, Kevin, the rugrats et al.
Chatty said it beautifully, I’ve got nothing to add but a great big hug and a little zen heading your way. Hang in there darlin! Love ya much! -C
Hey, no explanation needed. Real life is real life and blogging is blogging.
You just take of business. We’ll always be here.
Sorry about all the negative stuff you’ve had to deal with lately. Why do so many of the bad things happen to the best people?
I have to say I agree with the status quo here. Your blog is for you dear, and if it ever becomes a time where it feels stressful or you feel that you have to explain yourself...know that we understand. I think most people that I blog with all have things that come up, but you sound that you have a lot to take care of. And, by all means, go take care of it sweetheart. We’ll probably still be here with open arms for a hug or a listening ear when you need it.
You didn’t owe us any explanation. Life has its ups and downs, busy times and not-so-busy times. If a hobby becomes less enjoyable, don’t force it. Sounds to me as if your priorities and viewpoints are exactly where they are suppose to be.
{ { HUG } }
I’ll watch for you in my RSS feed, and hope you get back to regular postings soon - because that could signal some of the pressures of your real life have eased.
I agree with Chatty’s comment completely. I also want to ad in there that most all of us ‘old timers’ in the blog world have (or are now) experienced what you are regarding blogging and the whole public diary thing too. I love you girl, hang in there! And, don’t worry about what everbody else thinks. We purposely only display certain aspects of our lives in this medium and to those who are narrow minded enough to believe that is the entirety of our existances, they need to grow up. No body has the right to judge another for any reason. Period. I don’t get around to commenting much, even though I read, and I’ve quit explaining it to my readers too. I don’t comment because much of the time, I simply don’t have the time. Yet, I read through feedreaders and keep up on everything. You’re an amazing woman with an incredible load on your shoulders here lately. Of course you need to concentrate on your actual life! Blogging is simply a hobby on the side that you can drop and pick back up whenever your freetime allows you to. That is all it is.
Take care of you, lady! I miss you and love you tons and tons. you’re always in my prayers.
**hugs**
I can totally understand how you are feeling. And I hope this phase passes quickly and without more burden for you. It’s very true that people can’t and should not be judged by their blogs or attitudes. I like to throw my tantrums in my blog, just to get rid of them. And believe me, it works.
I sat and read though your post and acutally caught myself nodding my head after everything you were talking about *chuckle*
I feel the same way about my life/blog and lately it’s been wicked hard to just get up in the morning and deal with life much less try to be witty on the internet.
I hope that your life starts to balance out hun and best of luck with your holiday prep...we should get together one of these days for a post-holiday madness drink
*hugs*
Was this post inspired by my post this week?
I hope you didnt take it personally- it truly wasn’t intentional- but then again I did email you about that. There is really no need to feel bad about life getting in the way. My beef isn’t with bloggers like that AT ALL. I just worry about bloggers who might have something bigger going on. I like it when bloggers care enough to blog, even if it’s just a sentence or two. Commenting is just a luxury that is sometimes easier said than done to do.
ha, well you have been missed, but i totally understand the whole blogger conflict. it’s called real life. though it is theraputic to put your thoughts out there, knowing you’ll be heard. don’t stop writing. your thoughts are helpful and reassuring.
xo
You know, I have that button saying on a teeshirt… you want to borrow it for a while?
love ya
I used to feel guilty too, but then I realized that life gets in the way! I hope you guys are doing well and don’t feel guilty about writing/visiting. We’re here when you need us!
Aww, it’s okay. I comment a lot less than I used to because I’m working now and stuff.....and I blog less too. I really miss it sometimes, but other times, I’m like “eh, I’ll get to it when I get to it.”
Don’t let it worry you...we’ll prolly still be here.
Unless you’re Stephen King or Danielle Steele no one can be writing dynamos daily. I have a myspace thing but only read adrianne curry’s blog on that one. Anyway...I dont; have time to comment or read as many as I like everyday..with a infant and all...but it’s nice yuou wrote a post!
Life doesn’t “get in the way.” It’s why we’re here! Do what you do, or feel like you need to do, and be done with it! If you want to share the details on your blog, then do so. If not, don’t.
But you will have to admit, this time of year there are SO many wonderful tales to tell and traditions worth sharing… how about it?
it’s interesting the opinions that people form because they assume that you’ve revealed everything there is to know on your blog, esp. when that person holds back. I completely understand why blogging isn’t a great of a priority for you, esp. with what you have going on. It’s slipping down my list each day, if anything b/c I’m tired of being at the computer all the time.
Anyway, I hope you continue to blog and come around, even if it’s once a month, for I enjoy reading your posts and comments.
Great big (((HUGS))) from me to you! I’ve been feeling a little down myself and I was thinking of stopping my blog. But I think I’m gonna hold on to it for a while and see what happens.
I’m going back to Hawaii some time next year to be with Kamalani, cause her Mom is being deployed to Iraq in July. But she has to leave to go to Georgia first. I’ll give you a call when it happens in case of a lay-over your way.
Just remember how much you mean to me. I am so fortunate to have you as a friend. And you are always in my thoughts and prayers. You, Jade and Ohgirl. Take care and bless you always. Love you lots!
3T, All I can say is I LOVE YOU and while we’re always changing, please don’t ever change who you are.
No explanation EVER needed.
Chatty is soooooooooooo right. Why do we feel we need to explain ourselves?? I go through the same things as you. I slack on commenting (Been at it since 7am this morning to post at least ONE comment on each blog on my blogroll) and I really suck at posting anything interesting lately. And I feel compelled to post about why I am not posting so much. Go figure.
THAT explains everything, 3T. I was worried I might have said something wrong at some point. You know I love you. Be well. I’ll check in here from time to time.
I understand. PERFECTLY. Love ya, hun… will be happy to have you come by any time you can make it…
{{{hugs}}}
I take the lack of visits and comments personally. But I’m an insecure entertainer and crave attention.
You blog & comment when you want to or have the time to blog or comment. That’s how it works.
forgot to tell you ... if anyone else is hotlinking just drop me a note and I’ll handle it the way I always do.
Oh my gosh, 3. It never ceases to amaze me how much we have in common. I am going through the same stuff right now in my home and also feel so guilty about not getting around to visiting other blogs or posting as much. It seems like we’re in the same boat, with the health problems, too (though I wouldn’t even beging to complain that my husband’s chronic pain issues compares to cancer!)
I had issues with breast tumors years ago. Had two surgeries to have them removed (I think I’ve told you this already, so forgive me if I’m repeating myself).
Anyway, if you want to talk about it ever, I’m always here for you!
You’ll both be in my prayers!! ((((HUGS))))
Hi 3T,
Strolled in to say hi. This is such a gorgeous restful theme. I adore it. I have to run or I’d check and see if Rachel is still designing your blog? Please pass on WOW to her or whoever it is.
My style is to read several posts and then comment when a blog merits it, which yours always does. I dearly hope yours and Kevin’s medical challenges have a positive outcome.
As for the blogroll, I don’t care if I’m on a blogroll or not. It’s too stressful to try to keep up visiting everyone. I, too, used to do so religiously. I still visit much more often than I post, but both are sporadic.
The judgement from others(in real life) was one of the reasons I began blogging: as a “safe” outlet, bottling up the perceived negative parts of my life and only writing about “good things”; hence “Good Vibrations” besides the music theme.
Then I felt it was healthy to go ahead and release some feelings via my poetry. Some people always judge or give advice and I need to work harder on letting that go, even though I’m independent, I’m also sensitive.
Dang about them stealing your photos! That’s the reason I brand mine with copyright across it, ruining the image if someone tried to print it off or whatever. Some people have chastised me, but part of my art career is as a photographer, so anyone who wants an image knows how to obtain one.
Best wishes to you and yours this holiday season,
gel